Relationships: After reaching marriageable age, families begin to come together and the sightseeing begins. There is no pressure on those who do love marriage. But, accepting the proposal of marriage, marrying a place or a would-be bride or a person suggested by an acquaintance is very difficult and equally challenging. (Think these 5 things before doing arranged marriage, otherwise you may have to regret)
arranged marriage The marriage system often undergoes changes when we get married but was it the right decision? This is a very serious question. So it is always a good option to keep some things in mind and think about them well before doing an arranged marriage.
Before the person you think of as the ‘perfect match’ meets your expectation from a relationship. It is very important to know what you want in your relationship. If you do not know this, you may be confused with arranged marriage. To avoid this confusion, keep a few things in mind.
1. Set a Timeline
Setting aside time for yourself during an arranged marriage gives you a clear idea of what to do next. If you have chosen your partner from a matrimonial site or through relatives, you need to calculate how much time you want to spend with that person. At such times you do not rush and find enough time to spend with the person before marriage. If possible, spend time with each other, share likes and dislikes, habits and other important things with each other. This first step is very important for arranged marriage.
2. Spend time with his or her family
Spend some important moments with the family of the person you are going to marry. Thus one gets to know about the traditions, customs and traditions of his home. Spending time with family gives you an idea of their preferences. Moreover, it is not very difficult for you to understand the members of that family.
3. Financial Compatibility
It is very important that both of them earn after marriage. If you both work, or have two sources of income, neither is a burden. Whether you do arranged marriage or love marriage, financial independence is very important. If you are dependent on the other person, you will suffer from them in the future. So before arranging the marriage, without hesitation discuss the financial calculations clearly.
4. Don’t mind anything… (put all your cards on the table)
When you are in a relationship, you know everything about your boyfriend, but when you are in an arranged marriage, you know nothing about the person. Then at such times tell that person how you think about that person in your life without thinking what do you expect so that you get a good clarity before getting into the marriage.
5. Be Open About Your Past
We often hide the past from the other person during marriage. But after some time that past comes to the fore due to some reason causing new controversies and misunderstandings. So, as far as possible or necessary, share some past experiences with your potential partner. So that some things can be easily guessed. It helps to strengthen your relationship.
These 5 things will not cause you much trouble in arranged marriage. Considering these 5 things before agreeing to the marriage gives you important clarity.
(Disclaimer: The above information is based on common sense. Consult an expert if you want to use it in daily life.)
